fuck yeah chubby butches

queerbois: :: #QueerBOIS Submission:: More from the STLGBT...

Tue, 16 Apr 2013 17:01:41 +1000

:: #QueerBOIS Submission::

More from the STLGBT OUTSIDERS PROJECT

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Thanks for submitting this Lisa. We’ve been getting questions about your project. Please keep us updated.

A lovely butch who cooks a lovely pavlova. dream boat.

Mon, 25 Mar 2013 21:38:51 +1100

A lovely butch who cooks a lovely pavlova. dream boat.

tangledupinlace: If anyone’s looking to book a fat Chippendale...

Mon, 31 Dec 2012 13:14:00 +1100

tangledupinlace:

If anyone’s looking to book a fat Chippendale dancer get at me. Spaces are filling up

NSFW! Thanks for the submission you big butch lovely xo just...

Mon, 31 Dec 2012 13:11:00 +1100

NSFW! Thanks for the submission you big butch lovely xo

just stoppin by showin some topless butch love, im not even sure if we can post topless…but still heres a submission..

fuckyeahftmsofcolor: Take me as I am. This is me 11 months on...

Wed, 07 Nov 2012 11:20:30 +1100

fuckyeahftmsofcolor:

Take me as I am.

This is me 11 months on T!!

Plus nearly 3 months post-op w/ Dr. Garramone

http://storiesby-thestoner.tumblr.com/

mrsexsmith: Back on the Road! 2012-2013 travels, destination...

Wed, 03 Oct 2012 11:57:26 +1000

mrsexsmith:

Back on the Road! 2012-2013 travels, destination cities, new workshops, & more.

the-absolute-funniest-posts:

Tue, 02 Oct 2012 14:33:23 +1000

the-absolute-funniest-posts:

Here’s a another not safe for work delight. Uschi after...

Fri, 28 Sep 2012 19:55:53 +1000

Here’s a another not safe for work delight.

Uschi after the wildfire clean up… but more Uschi, less clothes this time…

mmmajestic: casual sunday morning packing #dikpix #packing is...

Wed, 26 Sep 2012 11:39:05 +1000

mmmajestic:

casual sunday morning packing #dikpix #packing is for lovers (Taken with Instagram)

badassesandbeards: maxheron: This might be the greatest photo...

Tue, 25 Sep 2012 19:12:26 +1000

badassesandbeards:

maxheron:

This might be the greatest photo of me ever taken.

This is too good not to share with you B&B dudes and dudettes.

Hey, it’s Uschi again. Welcome back! Uschi says, My GF...

Tue, 25 Sep 2012 11:31:55 +1000

Hey, it’s Uschi again. Welcome back! Uschi says,

My GF took a couple shots after we went to do some wild-fire cleanup stuff with CUSP ( http://www.uppersouthplatte.org/partlink.html - for anyone else interested in CO).

Fire zones get you REAL dirty.

"We must shift from a politic of desirability and beauty to a politic of ugly and magnificence. That..."

Wed, 29 Aug 2012 13:20:42 +1000

“

We must shift from a politic of desirability and beauty to a politic of ugly and magnificence. That moves us closer to bodies and movements that disrupt, dismantle, disturb. Bodies and movements ready to throw down and create a different way for all of us, not just some of us.

The magnificence of a body that shakes, spills out, takes up space, needs help, moseys, slinks, limps, drools, rocks, curls over on itself. The magnificence of a body that doesn’t get to choose when to go to the bathroom, let alone which bathroom to use. A body that doesn’t get to choose what to wear in the morning, what hairstyle to sport, how they’re going to move or stand, or what time they’re going to bed. The magnificence of bodies that have been coded, not just undesirable and ugly, but un-human. The magnificence of bodies that are understanding gender in far more complex ways than I could explain in an hour. Moving beyond a politic of desirability to loving the ugly. Respecting Ugly for how it has shaped us and been exiled. Seeing its power and magic, seeing the reasons it has been feared. Seeing it for what it is: some of our greatest strength.

”

- Mia Mingus Femmes of Color Symposium: Keynote Speech (via thegang)

I'm a cis gay guy who often finds trans men extremely attractive. I have never been with a transman, and I'm honestly kind of nervous about dating one. I'm desperately in love with a trans guy I've known for a few years and I think he's interested too, but I have this fear about dating him. I feel bad, but I worry that I may be turned off by a his parts when it comes down to really having sex. What should I do? I really like him and don't want something as stupid as genitals to get in the way.

Sun, 19 Aug 2012 18:45:35 +1000

I can’t say I have a definitive answer for you. Except to say that many people I know have discovered as we grew older that genitals don’t matter that much, even for sex. And secondly, sometimes we have sex with people we love and we keep loving them even when we don’t have sex any more. So I think as long as you aren’t offensive about this guy’s body and parts then you could probably stay friends even if you found you weren’t passionately into the sex.

note-a-bear: This is actually pretty much exactly where I want...

Wed, 08 Aug 2012 12:53:37 +1000

note-a-bear:

This is actually pretty much exactly where I want my body to be.

the right to remain silent, not the obligation.: For the first time in a while

Sat, 28 Jul 2012 15:27:36 +1000

the right to remain silent, not the obligation.: For the first time in a while:

handling-it:

I’m feeling really gross about my body. I love my stomach — it tells a lot of stories about my childhood that I can’t remember, even some that I don’t want to remember. I love the fullness of my legs and hips — I’ve always found those things sexy in a man and I find them sexy in myself. I’ve grown…

beardedandblack: For the chubby and bearded lovers out...

Mon, 16 Jul 2012 20:26:34 +1000

beardedandblack:

For the chubby and bearded lovers out there.

Teddy bear(d)

Submitted by: coolbreezej

GNO of Dallas

Photo

Sat, 07 Jul 2012 15:04:40 +1000

I went to the gap shopping for work clothing and just had to...

Wed, 20 Jun 2012 12:35:47 +1000

I went to the gap shopping for work clothing and just had to have these cheeseburger boxers

Thank you Handsome!

mrsexsmith: yesterday’s January self portrait (jan 8)

Sun, 27 May 2012 16:06:15 +1000

mrsexsmith:

yesterday’s January self portrait (jan 8)

I just knocked this up for the currently recruiting, issue three of DUDE magazine, themed ‘All...

Tue, 24 Apr 2012 12:59:14 +1000

I just knocked this up for the currently recruiting, issue three of DUDE magazine, themed ‘All the lovers’. You can appreciate their work over here: http://dudemagazine.wordpress.com/

Once, years ago, when I was working in a busy city bar my manager gave me a present. She had been down to Corky Saint Claire and especially for me, brought back a little button badge that said ‘tranny chaser’. My colleague was straight but not prejudiced and had obviously noticed my appreciation of trans-masculine types. On the other hand, she was not part of my world enough to realise that being called a tranny chaser was actually not complimentary. I never wore the badge and I think it remains buried with various badges mainly from the trove of the Lesbian and Gay Archives (‘Sodom today, Gomorrah the world’ being my personal favourite).

At the time of the badge gift I was dating, in a painful long-distance way, a beautiful androgynous dyke. At the same time I was living with a genderqueer person who changed their name to a male name during the period we dated. It was a difficult time. I thought I was being super ‘radical’ by being polyamorous. With the wisdom of hindsight I can see there’s nothing radical about the way everyone in the situation ended up deeply traumatized but that is a topic for another day. For my purposes here, I am interested in the fact that I got lumped with this label. Since I came out to my Mama at 19 I have self-identified as a dyke and had my own journey of gender exploration. I was recently gifted by said Mama, on the occasion of my 30^th birthday, a set of photos of me over the years. By the time I was labeled a tranny chaser by my insensitive colleague I was sporting very short hair and binding regularly but not every day. It’s an awkward thing to reflect on, one’s gender progression, not to mention one’s steady stream of questionable fashion choices. But it was a timely reminder that my current feminine presentation isn’t something that just happened – I chose this, I actively made myself in this mould and that involved a deliberate decision that I was not going to transition myself.

So back to my role as a lover and alleged chaser of hot tranny arse… In fact the people I have dated have tended to the butch dyke type and only three to five of my lovers have actively identified as trans while we dated. The slippage there, between three and five is the question mark that hangs over time lines, the overlap between dating and transitioning that happened with at least two of my former lovers.

Which brings me to my other grave fear, worse even than being accused of fetishising gender. I worry that being a supporter of surgery fundraisers might make it look like I am inappropriately invested in people getting surgery! I have helped a number of trans men organize benefits and as I said, have experienced more than one lover transitioning in the period we have dated. I am definitely not shy to say I will always be an advocate for people doing whatever the hell they want with their own bodies. But I want to take this opportunity to make a declaration: I love you all, handsome gender queer and trans people. I think there have been times when butch dykes in my life have expressed defensiveness around others’ decisions to transition, like the fact of others transitioning was a sign of disrespect to the version of masculinity they chose to embody. I think that tension has lessened now but just in case there are butch dykes out there who feel like there is pressure for them to transition just because more people have been choosing to do that in our world, I am putting my hand up as an avid fan of you all, in all your butch, androgynous and trans beauty.